可憐？可恨？

朋友問：「男人將離咗婚個老婆幅相放響車到。你覺得有冇問題？」

當然有問題。有相只因生活一部分，放當眼處就是捨不得。如果問題未解決帶到新感情上，除非你愛死他；否則，你將會變成他的心理治療師。又是愛人又是治療師，難！我建議待他處理好自己再來愛你吧！

「可恨之人，必有可憐之處」也許就是這麼一回事。

多少戀愛從可憐而生，可恨而終？

起跑點?有跑過咩!

「大華盛頓地區一所曾經是全國排名第一的重點高中，近年亞裔學生的比例不斷升高，但排名卻日漸下降。...... 知名大學在收取學生時，創意和個人特色有時會凌駕學術成績之上。」
不要讓孩子輸在起跑點上

最近興虎媽。係，勤力係可以高分。但就謹此而已。即係做到經理，做唔到大老闆。而且，呢個經理位好快就會被淘汰，坐唔穩。因為總有人比你勤力，甚而比你聰明！

搵到自己嘅興趣好緊要。不論係做一個 librarian, clerk, pet groomer, clown ...... 能做一份自己有興趣嘅工係幾咁幸福！因為有興趣，所以先會有突破！退咗休都有寄託。人生有追求，就有意義。一生人就被迫讀書，被迫打份死工，太可憐！

我唔係鬼婆！

飯局，有朋友話早知我去做手術就煲湯比我飲。半枱人立即叫「佢係鬼婆嚟咖！佢唔信呢啲嘢咖！」中國嘢，鬼婆未見過，當然唔信。但唔通鬼婆唔會迷信嘅？鬼婆就唔貪慕虛榮？

我只係比一般女人理智、比一般人開明啲。唔知點解就變成鬼婆！我先一啲都唔鬼婆。我唔會去一日 spa，唔會係 bb 都話 cute，又或者成日 sugarcoat ugly truth。

幽默 . 不幽默

康城影展訪問中問及劉德華的角式，劉德華說他問杜琪峰："Can I be a blind lawyer?"

"Sure you can, sure you can. You learn more and then you practice more; you can be."

我 想此乃香港人之幽默。西方社會，由藝人變政客大有人在。最為人熟悉有 Ronald Reagan 與 Arnold Schwarzenegger。所以，溝通不止於語文，亦要對其他人的文化有所認識。當大家都看粵語配音的西片時，必定會錯失領悟當中文化用詞說法。看完 粵語配音，不仿亦看看原音，會更加有味道！

Jobs

Here's <How People Talk About Jobs> (HK version)
A: So, what do you do?
B: aaa bbb ccc ...
A: Is it well paid?
Seldom you hear people ask: "You like the job?"

Homosexuality

Just what is so scary about homosexuality? So they love their same sex partners hurt you? It is not infectious or learnt. It is not a crime booster. It is a fact. Do not use your ignorance to judge. And if you can't face it, you'll be living in your little bubble; unable to move forward.

Open Mind ≠ Mindlessness

There are times when some people believe in some stupid ideas* and I refute rationally with reasons, they'll say I need to be more open-minded.

[* Here are some examples of stupid ideas :
HK will claim to be infected area and hence need to store rice.
Going to washrooms in China, you will get your kidney stolen.
Salt can resist radiation.
Extraterrestrial intelligence loves to build things on earth and then leave.
When they can't explain something or too careless/lazy to investigate something, then it is ghost.
Pet psychic.]

To them, to be open-minded means to accept whatever crap they say. If that's the case, I'd rather be narrow-minded (in their terms, of course) than to downgrade to a retard.
[ "I don't like the fact that you're proving me wrong, so I will pretend that your failure to agree with my argument is a philosophical deficiency"
Open mind

I am sorry they don't have the brain to understand things and that I can't make them any smarter. The best I can do is stop being "bitchy" (scornful) but it's not going to change the fact that they ARE dim-witted! And here's the funny part: an ignorant person tries to define open-mindedness. Just how am I able to stop laughing?!

為什麼婚姻一定要一男一女？

不外乎兩大原因：
1. 宗教
2. 生育
從來，婚姻都不關乎宗教。中國人拜高堂，拜天地，攪一場大龍鳳，一切都不過形式，無非向其他人展示地位、建立關係、傳終接代。婚姻不保障女人。
當女人不再成為男人附屬品，男女平等，婚姻亦變成一夫一妻制。既然男女平等，婚姻下雙方權益都必須平等，而且有法律保障。(別話：但係我哋簽好多其他合約又唔使有宗教儀式或發誓、請飲或開 party？) 結咗又離，結咗又唔負責，大有人在！
至於生育，又唔係動物！除咗想得到兩個人嘅結晶品之外，今日生仔係為乜？都係嗰句，生咗唔教，教壞，亦大有人在！
連一夫一妻都制唔住，費咁多工乎唔比同性情人、變性人取得法律保障，又對邊個有好處？

香港教育 = 功課 + 補課

今日上堂問學生那一節自由堂（新篇的免費課堂，讓他們多點用英語的機會）可在哪一天上。其中一個學生拿出一張密密麻麻的補課時間表來。暑假根本不容休息，不如不放。忍不住說：「那些給很多功課的老師，教學資格差。那些放學、假期例要不停補課的老師，不但教學資格差，而且豪無條理，侵犯學生私人時間的權利，極不專業！」香港大多都是這樣教學的！

未做過家務

唔小心睇到TVB水上活動。李亞男話「我未做過家務！」
嘩！
老公『邊個娶著佢就慘！』
我『好羨慕呀！』

民主唔係大晒

民主係要有，即使佢有瑕疵。但唔好以為民主可以幫你攪掂民生問題。唔好以為有普選，低下階層就有好日子過，甚至以為大家就可以 un un 腳享受全民退休保障。

外國福利好，大家都知道。但係錢從何來？

加拿大有醫療保障、失業保障、房屋...... 但係以安大略省為例，買嘢要比多13%HST，入息稅最少係15%，最高係46.4%! 簡單計算：
出份糧 $2,000 拘 $300(15%)，剩番 $1,700買嘢又拘稅，實際只有 $1,479。
如果係專業人士，出份糧 $7,000 拘咗入息稅剩番 $3,752，買嘢再扣稅，實際只有 $3,264.24。
$2,000 得 $1,479。$7,000 得 $3,264。而呢兩個人生 cancer 所得到嘅醫療福利係一樣嘅。呢兩個人個仔係讀同一間學校。同共產冇咩分別。一個真實個案：engineer 去咗做賭場派牌，收入好過做 engineer！

或者呢個例子比較誇張。但係如果大家(有生產嘅)供自己份 MPF 都蟻咬咁聲，大家重願唔願意交多啲稅比全香港人分享呢？稅率高重會唔會吸引到人嚟香港做生意呢？咁高稅率重有冇非專業嘅工打呢？如果普選選咗個全民退休保障，可能會再嚟一次大 brain drain。可能啫。我唔係經濟學家，有好人一樣都唔係。

民主要完美必先要有嚴格人口管制同人嘅素質要高。想像一下大陸咁多人又素質低，聽日就民主會點？