揀女人

一般男人揀女人都一個譜。明明唔喜歡黐身黐世，但大把男人鐘意，佢又爭埋一份。明明鐘意活潑嘅，但又柴娃娃咁去追個十指不掂陽春水嘅林黛玉。就算蠢過隻豬，大洗過B嫂，呢啡過乞衣，只要佢靚靚好身材卜卜脆就得。幾好笑！

你的做到了嗎？要好好準備啊！

[樂活。家 issue017]
There are a lot of helicopter parents! There's always one around. As a freelance teacher, I roll my eyes a lot! I can say 1/2 of the high school kids in HK don't know how to do these. Reason mostly, not because they are not taught, is that the parents don't know how to do these either! Hence don't believe this is important. Inheritance!
 
There are 2 issues here.
1, is to take care of oneself and how to grow up like a normal adult.
2, is value.
When the parents don't know how and what to teach their kids, when the parents would rather 'buy' conveniency, they will get these cheap maids and treat the maids as if they are sold to them as slave. (Pretty much like those mainlanders shopping in HK, we become their slaves.) They nurture the kids with the same attitude -- quick quick hurry hurry! End up doing all the things for them. And they have a lot of convenient excuses: kids are young, I want them to feel love, they won't listen, blah blah blah...
Then, it's value. They don't know why they want kids. They don't know what to do with them. Kids are treated more like a toy. I will dress them the way I want, not the way the kids like. I want them to go to my dream school (the prestigious one I never had a chance to go to), and get my dream job (the highly paid which I never got). Every time I suggest parents to let their kids try as many things as possible to find their interests so they can have motivation to go for it, they respond, "How many people can have a job of their interest?" Well, the answer is no if you don't try. Passion makes things possible. They don't believe me. "How much can you get paid to do these things anyway?" Kids are fed with these negative believes. They don't want to try, don't like failing, and certainly don't want to pioneer. Basically, they don't have dreams.
I can go on and on.

醫生態度

睇到批評醫生態度。有人認為醫生態度差只係佢太直接。非常唔同意！

正常嚟講，醫生講嘢必須要直接，否則病人有所誤會都幾大鑊！但係直接同刻薄唔一樣。

假設 1：

病人「醫生，食避孕丸係咪好多副作用㗎！」

醫生『好多人都會從上一代聽到關於避孕有好多副作用。經過咁多年嘅 development，今時今日嘅避孕已經幾乎冇副作用㗎啦！』

假設 2：

病人「醫生，食避孕丸係咪好多副作用㗎！」

醫生（皺眉）『你聽邊個講㗎？你唔識就咪亂聽人講啦！我叫得你食就緊係冇問題㗎啦！』

信任醫生故然重要，但信任係點建立嘅呢？就係醫生嘅專業知識，耐心講解。

我唔知醫生有冇得學 customer service。如果因為上一個 customer 激親自己，而將情緒帶到下一個 customer，咁唔單止對下一個 customer 唔公平，而且唔專業。

有啲學生唔鐘意英文，甚至憎恨英文。佢哋連教英文嘅老師都憎。同樣哋，因為病睇一個冇 empathy 嘅醫生，經歷好唔愉快。於是，將兩者聯繫，係個病令我不愉快。只要唔理個病，咁就唔使唔開心囉！

為醫係為咗咩？錢？硏究細胞病毒？幫助病人？

Doctor a Scientist or a Healer?